Wednesday, August 15, 2012

The Social Contract


Chalmers Brothers, in Language and the pursuit of Happiness, Chapter 7 – Assertions and Assessments, states:

“Socially (for us non-hermits), certain expectations also arise when we make assertions and assessments.  When we make assertions, it is expected that

1.        The assertion is true, and

2.       We can and will provide evidence to support what we say, if asked.

“Language generates and creates, not just describes.  Make a bunch of false assertions and over time, you will absolutely generate a public identify for yourself of “liar.”  Consistently fail to provide evidence to back up the assertions you made, same thing.”

Diane Baccus-Horsley has earned the public identity of Liar.

Friday, August 10, 2012

The Forida Way


File a petition for Dissolution of Marriage Florida Family Law Form 12.901(a), (b)(1), (b)(2), or (b)(3) with the Clerk of the Court.  The following is from the (b)(2) version.

For your case to proceed, you must properly notify your spouse of the petition. If you know where he or she lives, you should use personal service.   If personal service is used, the respondent has 20 days to answer after being served with your petition.

Your case will then generally proceed in one of the following three ways:


DEFAULT... If after 20 days, your spouse has not filed an answer, you may file a Motion for Default,

Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.922(a), with the clerk of court. Then, if you have filed all of the required papers, you may call the clerk, family law intake staff, or judicial assistant to set a final hearing. You must notify your spouse of the hearing by using a Notice of Hearing (General), Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.923, or other appropriate notice of hearing form.



CONTESTED... If the respondent files an answer or an answer and counterpetition, which disagrees with or denies anything in your petition, and you are unable to settle the disputed issues, you should file a Notice for Trial, Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.924, after you have complied with mandatory disclosure and filed all of the required papers. Some circuits may require the completion of mediation before a final hearing may be set. You should contact the clerk, family law intake staff, or judicial assistant for instructions on how to set your case for trial (final hearing). If the respondent files an answer and counterpetition, you should answer the counterpetition within 20 days using an Answer to Counterpetition, Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.903(d).

With this form, you must also file the following:

·         Affidavit of Corroborating Witness, Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.902(i) OR photocopy of current Florida driver’s license, Florida identification card, or voter’s registration card (issue date of copied document must be at least six months before date case is actually filed with the clerk of the circuit court).

·         Marital Settlement Agreement for Dissolution of Marriage with No Dependent or Minor Child(ren), Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.902(f)(2), if you and your spouse have reached an agreement on any or all of the issues.

·         Notice of Social Security Number, Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.902(j).

·         Family Law Financial Affidavit, Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure Form 12.902(b) or (c).  (This must be filed within 45 days of service of the petition on the respondent, if not filed at the time of the petition.)

·         Certificate of Compliance with Mandatory Disclosure, Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure Form 12.932. (This must be filed within 45 days of service of the petition on the respondent, if not filed at the time of the petition, unless you and your spouse have agreed not to exchange these documents.)


Alimony... Alimony may be awarded to a spouse if the judge finds that he or she needs it and that the other spouse has the ability to pay it. If you want alimony, you must request it in writing in the original petition or counterpetition. If you do not request alimony in writing before the final hearing, it is waived (you may not request it later). You may request either permanent alimony, lump sum alimony, or rehabilitative alimony.


Marital/Nonmarital Assets and Liabilities... Florida law requires an equitable distribution of marital assets and marital liabilities. “Equitable” does not necessarily mean “equal.” Many factors, including alimony awards, may lead the court to make an unequal (but still equitable) distribution of assets and liabilities. Nonmarital assets and nonmarital liabilities are those assets and liabilities which the parties agree or the court determines belong to, or are the responsibility of, only one of the parties. If the parties agree or the court finds an asset or liability to be nonmarital, the judge will not consider it when distributing marital assets and liabilities.

Temporary Relief... If you need temporary relief regarding temporary use of assets, temporary responsibility for liabilities, or temporary alimony, you may file a Motion for Temporary Support with No Dependent or Minor Child(ren), Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.947(c).

For more information, see the instructions for that form.

Marital Settlement Agreement... If you and your spouse are able to reach an agreement on any or all of the issues, you should file a Marital Settlement Agreement for Dissolution of Marriage with Property But No Dependent or Minor Child(ren), Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.902(f)(2). Both husband and wife must sign this agreement before a notary public or deputy clerk.

Any issues on which you are unable to agree will be considered contested and settled by the judge at the final hearing.


Final Judgment Form... These family law forms contain a Final Judgment of Dissolution of
Marriage with Property but No Dependent or Minor Child(ren), Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.990(c)(2), which the judge may use if your case is contested. If you and your spouse reach an agreement on all of the issues, the judge may use a Final Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage with Property but No Dependent or Minor Child(ren) (Uncontested), Florida Supreme Court Approved Family Law Form 12.990(b)(2). You should check with the clerk, family law intake staff, or judicial assistant to see if you need to bring a final judgment with you to the hearing. If so, you should type or print the heading, including the circuit, county, case number, division, and the parties’ names, and leave the rest blank for the judge to complete at your hearing or trial.

Nonlawyer... Remember, a person who is NOT an attorney is called a nonlawyer. If a nonlawyer helps you fill out these forms, that person must give you a copy of a Disclosure from Nonlawyer, Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure Form 12.900 (a), before he or she helps you. A nonlawyer helping you fill out these forms also must put his or her name, address, and telephone number on the bottom of the last page of every form he or she helps you complete.


The latest version of this form is available at http://www.flcourts.org/gen_public/family/forms_rules/901b2.pdf

Thursday, August 9, 2012